Listening to Cancer:

Essays on Treatment, Survivorship, and Giving Back

Steve Buechler

As an eight-year survivor of a lethal blood cancer, Steve Buechler has assembled forty essays on what he has learned “listening to cancer” from diagnosis and treatment to recovery and survivorship. Anyone whose life has been touched by cancer can benefit from the wisdom and lessons contained in this highly readable volume.

EDITORIAL REVIEWS FOR HOW STEVE BECAME RALPH: BOOK 1

“A thoughtful encouraging expression of one man’s odyssey beyond a diagnosis of leukemia. This is a courageous plowing-through months of testing and treatment supported by family, friends and health care providers. Punctuated by personal insights and small quips of humor, Steve Buechler delves into his physical, psycho-social and spiritual processes as he works with the health care community and a cord blood transplant. A good read for a health care provider, patient, or caregiver.”—Roxana Huebscher, PhD, RN, NP and Professor Emeritus, UW Oshkosh

“Steve Buechler’s How Steve Became Ralph is an unusual cancer memoir as it's not about death and dying rather about living and thriving. The book is filled with life lessons injected with ample doses of the author's quirky sense of humor. A compelling read!”—Simi K. Rao, Physician and Author

“Steve (or now Ralph) reminds us, healthy or ill, that life, with all its challenges, is worth living. It shows us the importance of seeing the glass half full rather than half empty, the necessity of setting real priorities in our lives and that keeping an open mind for all the goodness that our journey can offer, even in trying situations, can be ultimately rewarding to ourselves and others around us. It also underscores that patients have a major role in their healing process, which cannot be merely passive. More importantly, love from our family members and our friends, and even from our health care providers (and ourselves) can achieve the best possible results. Good reading to re-set perspectives and to help appreciate and treasure our lives, one day at a time.”—Gina Cunto-Amesty, Physician

"Written in the easy style of emails, “How Steve Became Ralph” is an interesting odyssey through a life-saving medical procedure." — Mary Ann Grossmann, writer for the Twin Cities' Pioneer Press

"Right from the whimsical title and subtitle, you get a sense that this is going to be a different type of cancer memoir. And Steve Buechler delivers. This is not a story about a raging battle against the evil enemy cancer; instead Buechler calmly frames his disease as 'just a biological process originating from within the body that simply is what it is and does what it does.' Overall, the book is an amazing testament to the therapeutic power of humor, and in its calm, thoughtful way, is gripping, revealing, and profoundly inspirational." — Peter Gordon, Author of Six Years and Counting: Love, Leukemia, and the Long Road Onward.

“How Steve Became Ralph is an odyssey in every sense of the word. Buechler transforms a devastating cancer diagnosis into a literary quest infused with intelligence, mindfulness, humor, and hope.”—Carolyn Redman, Author of News From Lake Boobbegone

AUTHOR BIO

Steve Buechler is a native of Milwaukee, Wisconsin, where he attended UW-Milwaukee and financed his undergraduate education by playing the drums in a rock and roll band. After earning a couple of academic degrees, he had a thirty-one-year career at Minnesota State University, Mankato, where he taught sociology. His favorite pastimes include cruising the Mediterranean and patronizing a local pool hall. He lives in Eden Prairie, Minnesota with his wife Susan Scott. One year before his retirement date, he was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia and treated with chemotherapy, radiation, and a double umbilical cord blood transplant. You can find him on Facebook @SteveBuechlerAuthor.